Letter from Frances Miller Seward to William Henry Seward, January 16, 1831
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Letter from Frances Miller Seward to William Henry Seward, January 16, 1831
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Auburn NY
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County: Cayuga
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receiver:
William Seward
Person
Name: William Seward
Birth: 1801-05-16
Death: 1872-10-10
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Albany NY
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Auburn Sunday evening 16
My Dear Henry, your Thursday’s letter came this morning, it
seems to me my letters are forever getting to you, you have not
received my second yet. I have the vapours most wretchedly. The
destroying angel still continues to visit the dwellings of our neigh-bours, and why shall we escape? Ambrose Cock
Name: Ambrose Cock
Birth: 1779-08-13
Death: 1850-02-02
lost another
child
on Friday with the scarlet fever, the youngest, about nine months
old. Daniels
Name: Daniel Cock
Birth: 1806-11-11
Death: 1850-10-28
babe
Name: Charles Cock
Birth: 1829-12-17
Death: 1831-01-17
was alive the last we heard but
supposed to be
dying. Mrs. Gunn
disease, what a barbarous custom this is of hurrying people under
ground the moment they have ceased to breathe. Catharine McDonald
Name: Catherine McDonald
Birth: 1800
Death: 1874-01Certainty: Probable
spent the day with us yesterday, is still here, nothing
occurred by way of excitement except the chimney’s getting on
fire in the afternoon the remainder of the day Grandma
Name: Paulina Miller
Birth: 1751
Death: 1835-10-03
and
Peter
Name: Peter Crosby
Birth:
Death:
spent in examining the roof of the house
to see that it had
not taken fire. Augustus
Name: Augustus Seward
Birth: 1826-10-01
Death: 1876-09-11
too was very useful
in that way, last
night it had snowed sufficient to make tolerable sleighing, so unpleasant
to day no one ventured out to Church. Teusday morning. I
had written so far sunday night when, while putting the children
in bed I hit my elbow against the bed post, I never had any
thing so trifling occasion so much pain. I think it must have
struck a nerve the chords became contracted and the veins very
much swollen instantly, it continued to pain me until
I went to bed, my wrist was so weak I could not write
any more that evening. I still feel the weakness when I write
but do not apprehend any other ill effects from the blow. Catherine
McDonald is still with us. She is a singular being but with all her
oddities has much good sense and quickness of apprehension. She is older than myself and can reccollect the rise and
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progress of the junto family as Mrs. G. B. Throop
Name: Frances Throop
Birth: 1806-02-11
Death: 1872-06-17
very sapiently
designates them. She has related to me many very amusing
anecdotes about them. I have wandered strangely since I commenced
this letter you must not imagine yours was less interesting to me
because I have said so little about it. I had the hypo when I
commenced writing Sunday evening and felt rather disposed to
quarrel with the post masters because I could not enjoy your
simpathy sooner. The sunshine of monday morning morning displaced
some of these feelings, but my apprehensions about the scarlet fever
still continue. Daniel Cock and his wife
their babe it died yesterday morning. Dr. Pitney
Name: Joseph Pitney
Birth: 1786-11-18
Death: 1853-04-20
who like Augustus
thinks one remedy may be effectively applied to all diseases in-creased the pain of the little sufferer by making an incision
in its throat, because he chanced to be successful when he operated
upon Mr Mills
to Dr Vaneps
followed his own judgement the child might have been living.
I would give the world there was one phisician in whom I had
might have half the confidence I had in poor Dr. Tuttle
Name: Erastus Tuttle
Birth:
Death: 1829-06
. But
the best phisician cannot always cure. After all the lives of our
babes are in the hands of Him who gave them, of Him who sees
not as man sees. It gratifies me to know that you think you
would be more happy were I with you but it cannot be. It would
be almost cruel to take my little ones away from a home where they
are so comfortable and happy this cold cold winter. I am
too foolish a mother to leave them, so it cannot be. I think
you will feel less lonely when you become more accustomed to your
new mode of spending your time. Thurlow Weed
Name: Thurlow Weed
Birth: 1797-11-15
Death: 1882-11-22
I
like because
he likes you. Andrews
Name: Samuel Andrews
Birth: 1796-10-16
Death: 1863-06-11
I do not
like neither do I like his wife
you could discover no point in her character because there is
none, none that is amiable. When she was 14 years old her
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most predominant traits were selfishness and vanity. Maynard
Name: William Maynard
Birth: 1786-11-11
Death: 1832-08-28
could not win a womans heart. But Tracy
Name: Albert Tracy
Birth: 1793-06-17
Death: 1859-09-12
,
with his “genius”
his “acquirements,” his “eloquence” and “honorable principles” his fascinating
address and his ambition has he a heart. You appear to
have forgotten this in the calender of his virtues. Perhaps a
brilliant imagination occupies the place of one. Mrs Tracy
Name: Harriett Tracy
Birth: 1800-03-09
Death: 1876-03
as you draw her I should esteem but where there is a lady
in the case I had rather trust my own judgement.
Dont think me cynical, you know I can and do love,
too much for my own happiness some times. The stove does make
the big room very warm. Gus has had no rides with his Grandpa
Name: Elijah Miller
Birth: 1772-04-11
Death: 1851-11-13
yet, but promises in profusion. Grandma says Fred
Name: Frederick Seward
Birth: 1830-07-08
Death: 1915-04-25
has grown
to be very nice since he came here to live, but he will never
equal Augustus, with Grandma and Clary
Name: Clarinda McClallen
Birth: 1794
Death: 1862-09-05
, dear tired he
sits
alone and plays on the carpet and looks very meek and nice in
his mother’s eyes Augustus is devising all manner of ways to
keep him from Mr Tracy. I cannot persuade him that he will not be
taken perforce. I can tell you to which of the classes of members you do
not belong. Not to John C. Spencers
Name: John Spencer
Birth: 1788-01-08
Death: 1855-05-17
, not to Enos
Name: Enos Throop
Birth: 1784-08-21
Death: 1874-11-01
’ I am quite sure. Not
to those who dress, dine, make calls and motions prettily nor to the
mulititude of cyphers I am very positive. If you do not belong to the
other class which is the only one that finds any favour in my eyes
I think you must be a distinct species. It snows again to
day and continues yet, our thermometer has varied very
little during the last week. Saw no one yesterday but Beardsley
Name: Nelson Beardsley
Birth: 1807-05-30
Death: 1894-01-15
who came for the little tin trunk, did not appear much inclined
to talk, as a specimen of my carefulness, when he went away I looked
for the key but Peter who was standing by said he saw Beardsley put
it in his pocket. I gave up the seach search very composedly. This
morning the key was found on the carpet, woe unto me if Pa
had discovered it first. Tomorrow I shall expect the Sunday letter. Your own
Frances
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William H. Seward
Albany.
Auburn NY JAN 20
Type: postmark
Name: William Seward
Birth: 1801-05-16
Death: 1872-10-10
Frances A. Seward 21
Jan. 1831
Auburn Sunday evening 16
My Dear Henry, your Thursday’s letter came this morning, it
seems to me my letters are forever getting to you, you have not
received my second yet. I have the vapours most wretchedly. The
destroying angel still continues to visit the dwellings of our neigh-bours, and why shall we escape? Ambrose Cock
Person
Unknown
on Friday with the scarlet fever, the youngest, about nine months
old. Daniels
Person
Person
dying. Mrs. Gunn
Unknown
was buried
on Friday the day after herdisease, what a barbarous custom this is of hurrying people under
ground the moment they have ceased to breathe. Catharine McDonald
Person
occurred by way of excitement except the chimney’s getting on
fire in the afternoon the remainder of the day Grandma
Person
Peter
Person
not taken fire. Augustus
Person
night it had snowed sufficient to make tolerable sleighing, so unpleasant
to day no one ventured out to Church. Teusday morning. I
had written so far sunday night when, while putting the children
in bed I hit my elbow against the bed post, I never had any
thing so trifling occasion so much pain. I think it must have
struck a nerve the chords became contracted and the veins very
much swollen instantly, it continued to pain me until
I went to bed, my wrist was so weak I could not write
any more that evening. I still feel the weakness when I write
but do not apprehend any other ill effects from the blow. Catherine
McDonald is still with us. She is a singular being but with all her
oddities has much good sense and quickness of apprehension. She is older than myself and can reccollect the rise and
progress of the junto family as Mrs. G. B. Throop
Person
designates them. She has related to me many very amusing
anecdotes about them. I have wandered strangely since I commenced
this letter you must not imagine yours was less interesting to me
because I have said so little about it. I had the hypo when I
commenced writing Sunday evening and felt rather disposed to
quarrel with the post masters because I could not enjoy your
simpathy sooner. The sunshine of monday morning morning displaced
some of these feelings, but my apprehensions about the scarlet fever
still continue. Daniel Cock and his wife
Unknown
have just gone to burytheir babe it died yesterday morning. Dr. Pitney
Person
thinks one remedy may be effectively applied to all diseases in-creased the pain of the little sufferer by making an incision
in its throat, because he chanced to be successful when he operated
upon Mr Mills
Unknown
little girlUnknown
, who had the croup. He did the same
to Dr Vaneps
Unknown
childUnknown
it died and Vaneps now thinks had he followed his own judgement the child might have been living.
I would give the world there was one phisician in whom I had
might have half the confidence I had in poor Dr. Tuttle
Person
the best phisician cannot always cure. After all the lives of our
babes are in the hands of Him who gave them, of Him who sees
not as man sees. It gratifies me to know that you think you
would be more happy were I with you but it cannot be. It would
be almost cruel to take my little ones away from a home where they
are so comfortable and happy this cold cold winter. I am
too foolish a mother to leave them, so it cannot be. I think
you will feel less lonely when you become more accustomed to your
new mode of spending your time. Thurlow Weed
Person
he likes you. Andrews
Person
Unknown
you could discover no point in her character because there is
none, none that is amiable. When she was 14 years old her
most predominant traits were selfishness and vanity. Maynard
Person
could not win a womans heart. But Tracy
Person
his “acquirements,” his “eloquence” and “honorable principles” his fascinating
address and his ambition has he a heart. You appear to
have forgotten this in the calender of his virtues. Perhaps a
brilliant imagination occupies the place of one. Mrs Tracy
Person
as you draw her I should esteem but where there is a lady
in the case I had rather trust my own judgement.
Dont think me cynical, you know I can and do love,
too much for my own happiness some times. The stove does make
the big room very warm. Gus has had no rides with his Grandpa
Person
yet, but promises in profusion. Grandma says Fred
Person
to be very nice since he came here to live, but he will never
equal Augustus, with Grandma and Clary
Person
alone and plays on the carpet and looks very meek and nice in
his mother’s eyes Augustus is devising all manner of ways to
keep him from Mr Tracy. I cannot persuade him that he will not be
taken perforce. I can tell you to which of the classes of members you do
not belong. Not to John C. Spencers
Person
Person
to those who dress, dine, make calls and motions prettily nor to the
mulititude of cyphers I am very positive. If you do not belong to the
other class which is the only one that finds any favour in my eyes
I think you must be a distinct species. It snows again to
day and continues yet, our thermometer has varied very
little during the last week. Saw no one yesterday but Beardsley
Person
who came for the little tin trunk, did not appear much inclined
to talk, as a specimen of my carefulness, when he went away I looked
for the key but Peter who was standing by said he saw Beardsley put
it in his pocket. I gave up the seach search very composedly. This
morning the key was found on the carpet, woe unto me if Pa
had discovered it first. Tomorrow I shall expect the Sunday letter. Your own
Frances
William H. Seward
Albany.
Auburn NY JAN 20
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